|  Daddy Wants to Bond TooWednesday, 22 September 2010 We all know that breastfeeding is best for baby and mother but that can leave some daddies feeling left out. So how can daddies feel a true part of their baby's life and promote that loving bond between parent and baby? BreastfeedingI know you can't be part of the actual breastfeeding process but you CAN be happy in the knowledge that your baby is getting the best start in life. You can nurture your partner – a glass of water or a simple snack will be much appreciated as will support if a feed isn't going well. Baby-wearingBabies just love to be held and using a sling or a baby carrier is a wonderful way for daddies to get close to their baby. You can wear your baby around the house when you are getting on with chores, you can soothe and comfort a fractious baby or use a sling instead of a pram when you are out and about. Nappy change timeYes, I know this is the horrid bit, but with a little thought you can turn this into a lovely experience for both baby and daddy. Nappy change time will give you the chance to talk to your baby, sing to him, touch him, smile at him, pull faces and generally just be with your baby. Babies find comfort in repetition so make this into a frequent loving time and you will both benefit. Baby massage and touchA newborn baby communicates via touch and a gentle massage will help you get to know each other and can calm an upset baby. Skin to skin contact is vital and there is nothing quite so lovely as lifting your shirt up and letting your baby snuggle down to sleep in the warmth and smell of your skin. Talking and singingEven though your baby can't understand what you are saying, they will respond to their father's voice, so sing a gentle song or just chat about what you are doing. It may feel a little strange at first but you will soon see your baby reacting to your voice. Take timeModern life is frantic and stressful, all the more reason to take a deep breath, relax and just be with your baby. Sit on the sofa and talk to each other, pop on a baby sling and go for a walk in the park, cuddle up in bed and have a nap – the important thing is to just be together.
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